Who Is To Blame For My Lack Of Success?

Who is responsible for the success or failure ofopens the door, what people do once they get in
your dreams? You are. That is right, in the end,the door is the key.
you have ultimate responsibility. Are you upsetMartha is automatically at a disadvantage when
that you have only gotten to a certain level insomeone with experience and a degree applies
your career? I once knew a woman, let's call herfor a job she wants. She thinks "they only got
Martha; she was always thinking a person gettingthe job because they have a degree" not realizing
promoted quickly was unfair. She was a hardthat they got the job because they had the
worker and had spent twenty-plus years gettingexperience and the degree. Advancement takes
to where she was-a journeyman level ITwork, beyond the work put in at your job!
specialist. She had the hardest time with peopleAnother common complaint was that the
moving up the ladder faster than she did. Althoughorganization does not pay for enough training.
she never reflected on "why are people movingAgain, you have to pay for it-it benefits you the
up faster than me?" The reason was that shemost. The organization will benefit from you
lacked motivation to pursue the tools required fortraining of course, but you will be providing the
advancement: education, professional developmentbenefit-your leaders will notice that you take the
and aggressive career management. She happilyinitiative to get the job done. It will pay off in the
bought into "I am a victim of the system" andend; Martha never realized the cost is relative.
would rather criticize people succeeding thanThe last area where Martha fails to take control is
making a change herself.in the aggressive management of her career.
She never went to college or earned a degree.Many highly qualified professionals move around
She entered into the Information Technology fieldand take jobs to broaden their skill base. Martha
when there was a super-high demand-she knewstayed in the same job for years-and-years. She
more about computers than her peers at thehas a family. No excuse; she could have
time. Time though, moves on. Martha failed toaggressively asked her local employer to allow her
move with it. She entered into a professionalto work in other areas of the organization. She
occupation without the ambition to becoming adid not have to uproot her family. Martha probably
better professional. Great professionals getthought "they would never let me." Aggressive
education, training and experience no matter thecareer management means you give them
cost. If their organization does not pay for it, theyreason to allow it and stand by your desire.
pay for it, because in the end it helps them get toMartha could have said she needed to gain more
where they want to be. Today there are peopleexperience. She could have said something like
with graduate degrees in Information Technologythis: "to better provide information technology
working for half what she earns-yet she expectsservices to the different and unique areas of the
more. Candidates these days, in her field, haveorganization, I should rotate through their
degrees. She places little value on a degree andoperations. That way I know first-hand what they
thinks that people that have them think they arerequire from me." It is hard to argue with an
better than those that don't. (Not true in mostemployee that rationalizes their request with
cases.) What she fails to realize is that a degreeorganizational improvement.