Tips for New Parents: Help Your Child Develop Reading Readiness

Parents know that they need to think about howEven before children learn to talk, parents
they will help to prepare their children to learn tonaturally set them up for verbal communication.
read. When should all of this begin? The surprisingHow many times have we all witnessed parents
answer is that it may be far earlier than youwho talk to their children while dressing them?
think.That parent might say something like "Here's your
Many professionals have said that parents are thepretty pink dress!" or "Do you want to wear the
first educators. And, whether parents elect toblue shirt or the brown one?" Those parents who
traditionally educate their children or dedicate atalk often with their children long before the kids
significant portion of their own time, effort, andcan hold up their own end of the conversation
resources to homeschool their children, scientificare, almost stealthily, teaching their children
evidence strongly holds that parents can, should,pre-reading skills.
and do begin educating their children long beforeAnother way young children learn pre-reading skills
they consider beginning any sort of formal,is through exposure to those well-recognized early
structured education efforts.reader board books. These books, made from
Many parents, especially new and homeschoolingthick cardboard and easy for less-than-nimble
parents, hesitate to "push" a child into readingfingers to manipulate have simple, colorful pictures
before they are "ready." However, reading isand short, basic words. They help pre-readers
merely a visual representation of the spokenlearn to associate words with objects and people
word. And, just as we teach our children to talkin a different way than they were learning when
and the appropriate words for objects andthey held an object in their hands while mom or
people, we can begin early to teach our childrendad told them what that object was or when
how letters (i.e., symbols) represent certainthey began learning that people had names and
sounds, and when those letter symbols aretitles.
grouped, they form words. This natural educationMeasuring Pre-reading Success
process is less "pushing" than it is simple languageThe success of a parent's pre-reading instruction
acquisition. Some educators and experts refer tocan actually be measured. In general, children who
this process as pre-reading.have had lots of pre-reading activity exposure
Pre-reading Leads to Reading Successbegin speaking earlier than children who have not.
Pre-reading activities begin early and most parentsConsider that research indicates that parents who
aren't even aware they are preparing their youngspeak to their children often seem to have kids
children to read. Parents might sing the alphabetwho begin to speak at an earlier age. Parents who
song to help a cranky baby get to sleep. A child'slimit how much they speak to their very young
nursery might be adorned with an ABC border.children might notice that those children are "late"
Colorful magnetic letters might litter thetalkers.
refrigerator waiting for parent and child to makeChildren learn quickly and naturally, given the
words. These (apparently) unusual activities areopportunity. And, although parents might be
what prepare children to learn to read.hesitant to push their children into learning, they
Pre-reading is really all about exposing the child tomust also understand that it is their responsibility
both spoken and written language. Parents canto give their children the tools they need to
set their children up for success without pushingdevelop the proper pre-reading skills. Providing
by making sure that they have the maximumchildren with fun and interesting ways to develop
exposure to these activities. Technology has evenlanguage skills is very different from requiring a
given children a new opportunity for early learningminimum number of formal teaching hours for
called syllabics. Syllabics, which focuses on thepre-reading children. One scenario can be identified
sounds associated with all letters, or phonics,as learning fun. The second might be more along
which deals mainly with the sounds associatedthe lines of the "pushing" that parents are trying
with the consonants, can be easily learned withto avoid. Knowing the difference between the
readily available preschool computer software.two can set the stage for reading success.
Pre-reading, Games, and Conversation