Some Kids Read But What About Reluctant Readers?

When I was a little girl, I watched my parents andAfter the first two nights of this reading regime,
my grandparents read... a lot. If you're as old as Ihe announced that he might die from all this
am, you probably had the same experience. Ireading. I reassured him that nobody had every
figured that if they read, then I should read too.died from reading. Then asked what would help?
Most kids learn by imitating parents and siblings. IHe suggested that I should read with him at the
had no siblings so I did what my parents did. Isame time in the same room. I agreed. While he
became an early reader and a voracious reader.read his book, I would read the newspaper which
Fast forward 2009: Our grandson Caleb spent lastI hadn't gotten around to earlier in the day.
year with us. He's 2-3 years behind in reading.Now I'm guessing he thought it wouldn't work.
Sees no reason why he or anybody else wouldThat I, too, might worry about death caused by
need to read, must less WANT to read. Anythingreading once I tried it. Never crossed his mind
beyond short abbreviated text messages isthat someone, his very own Grandmother for
clearly a waste of time and BORING.example, might actually ENJOY reading.
Unfortunately, from his perspective, the DenverAfter a couple of nights of this, he asked
Public Schools think middle school kids should read..."Grandma, are you really reading the paper or are
every night. They suggest 30 minutes. Caleb'syou just pretending to read it?" To which I
teacher and I agreed that maybe in Caleb's caseanswered, "Of course I'm reading it. Why would
30 minutes was extreme so we settled on 15you even have to ask?" And he says, "Grandma,
minutes and he would choose the books.you're weird."
He balked. He whined. He cajoled. I won on theSadly in Denver and around the country, lots of
condition I would set the kitchen timer for 15kids agree with Caleb and lots of them are a
minutes. He certainly wasn't going to be "cheated"couple years behind in reading... or more.
and accidentally read for 16 minutes!