Put Pockets Into Your Life - Experience the Difference Between Being 'Calm' Instead of 'Crazed'

Have you ever heard about people who were in aacross campus, barely greeting anyone I knew
boat when it capsized? And then you found outand purposely ignoring everything interesting that
that they survived because there was a 'pocket'might distract me (and of course, not stopping in
of air that they were able to breathe? This is thethe bathroom). Harumph! This was not a smart or
concept of 'pockets,' that is, little (or big) hiddenefficient way for me to behave.
reserves that we can tap into when we need to.So, I made a decision: I decided to make that
Putting in these pockets can make the differenceyear (and it's been a constant, continuing quest)
for you of either being calm or crazed. Whichthe year of time "putting in pockets." If I had a
would you prefer?breakfast meeting that started at 8:00 and I
Several years ago, I started thinking about thisknew it took 15 minutes to drive there, I would
concept because I noticed that I didn't have anyleave at 7:30. Gosh! What if I got there early?!
'pockets.' At that time, I was the Director of theHere's what happened: I was calmer and more
Excellence in Teaching Program at the Universityready to meet, pay attention to my colleagues,
of Nevada, Reno. See if my situation was similarand think.
to one you have in your own life.So, what I want you to do right now is to read
If I had a 10:00 meeting across campus, and Ithrough the following list, and ask yourself
knew that it took me ten minutes to walk fromwhether you have any pockets in one, all, or any
my office to the Provost's office, I would leaveof these areas. Use the concept of 'pockets' being
at 9:50, working right up until the moment Ireserves that allow you to 'breathe' when your
needed to leave. I was, of course, thinking howboat capsizes.
efficient I was. WRONG! A 10-minute walk across
campus would only work if:a) I didn't see anyone I1. Time
knew along the way (and that wasn't going to2. Wealth
happen after 15 years on campus),b) I didn't3. "Stuff"
notice something interesting to look at (students4. Home, kids/family
doing something, a new set of plantings, a poster5. Work
that begged to be read), andc) I didn't need to6. Health
take a quick restroom break on the way (also7. Energy
highly unlikely since I'd been working all morning8. Ideas
and drinking coffee!)I hope thinking about the pockets in your life--be
So, in order to be "on time," I'd be chargingthey roomy or small--is useful to you.