Making Disadvantaged Students Feel Accepted in Their School

My sister has been an elementary teacher sincethings stay the same...where he or she has a
1976. My mother taught 3rd grade for her entiredesk, books, and a permanent place in the
career. My father was a superintendent of a smallclassroom. It provides an emotional anchor that
school system. I taught elementary art years. Ithey lack at home.
know kids.This is where my new career and education cross
Two Careers Cross Pathspaths. My sister told me that it is important for a
Since I retired a few years ago, I have beenchild to 'belong' to something...to be part of a
working with a company that provides advertisingfamily, even if the family is the school. She
promotional products. What in the world do theseregularly gives the students pencils, calendars,
two industries have to do with each other youlocker magnets, and other inexpensive goodies
ask? At first I didn't think about it, but afterthat have the school's name and mascot on it.
delving into my new 'career,' I found a commonEvery kid enjoys things like that, but she firmly
thread.believes that the gifts provide the disadvantaged
Some children in school don't have an ideal homechildren a sense of belonging. The trinkets make
life. Sad, but true. Anyone who has been athem feel accepted and part of the group. That is
teacher for any length of time has seen aa feeling they don't get at home.
student in that situation. There are many reasons.It Isn't Expensive
Drugs and/or alcohol, a broken home, abuse, andLaurie, my sister, said that the most popular item
neglect can create a poor home life for a youngis a simple refrigerator magnet with the school
person. To students subjected to such anmascot on it. She sees them on lockers at school,
environment, home is merely a place where theybut they also end up on refrigerators in the child's
sleep at night. They might not even know who willhome where it provides that needed sense of
be living there with them from day to day, or inbelonging can be displayed.
which room or bed they will sleep. Eventually theWhy not spend a few dollars and give something
classroom teacher can pick up on signs that ato your students that will help create a positive
student is living in a situation like those described.environment for all the students? Contact your
Teachers Can HelpPTA and have them help out by purchasing the
Teachers cannot solve those problems, but theyitems for the teachers to distribute. Speak with
can do a few things to make the child's life a bitthe school administrators to see if they would be
brighter. The school can create a sense ofinterested in purchasing some magnets for the
normalcy for a student who doesn't get it atstudents. Your kids will truly appreciate it.
home. School is perhaps the one place where