Learning How to Be Pack Leader

In nature dogs live in groups called packs. There isinconsistent. Then, you will be working on this
always one clear leader among the group and it isbehavior for the dog's lifetime and that will be
usually the confident, strongest, most trusted one.frustrating to you and the dog! If you stayed
The other dogs live under the command of theconsistent for example about the dog not jumping
leader and are considered followers to that leader.on anybody with their paws then the dog will
They looked to their leader on how to behavehappily be next to the guest without jumping
and when and where to eat and sleep. In the dogevery time because his rules were consistently
world this is what works for them, what is naturaltaught to him!
for them, and what makes them happy. We need*I always tell people to set rules based on how
to concentrate on understanding a dogs mind ifconsistent you can be with them or it will not be
we want to be successful. We should not placeworth it. The house rules will only work if you set
our human thinking on the dog because thatthem and follow them every time and all family
would be inaccurate. A human thinks differentlymembers must agree and also treat the dog the
than a dog and when we understand that we willsame way.
all be happier. The followers want a strong leaderDogs only understand very clear rules that are
that helps keep the pack in order. Most dogsblack and white. Here is another area where dogs
prefer not to be leader because it is a veryand humans are different. They do not
stressful job.understand the gray areas of rules like we do or
When we domesticated our dogs and broughtthe subtlety of hidden rules. If we are clear in our
them into our human world to live with us we didrules and consistent in our expectation of these
not remove this instinct in the dog to need ahouse rules we will have a happy, well trained dog!
leader. Dogs consider themselves to be part of aSet your rules, make them clear, and stick to
pack even when the pack involves a mixture ofthem.
dogs and humans. A dog needs a leader in theirThere can be more than one "human" pack
life and if there isn't a clear leader they have toleader. In fact, all the humans in the household,
take over and lead. In our human world thiseven the children must act like pack leader and
causes great problems in the dog such as,share the same rules and expectations of the
aggression, separation anxiety, and many otherdog. One person should not have different
behavioral problems. Can you imagine howexpectations than another. Everyone should agree
stressful it would be to a dog to be leader toon the dog rules and follow them consistently.
humans?
How do you know if you are pack leader or ifTrain your dog well so that you may take them
your dog is? Does your dog NOT listen to youwith you to explore the world, whether it is on a
nor do what you ask? Does your dog pull you onhike in the mountains or a trip down the sidewalk.
walks? Does your dog have behaviors that youMost dogs today usually live in a house or
want to change but haven't been able toapartment and may have or may not have a
successfully? These are a few of the clear signsbackyard and may occasionally go out for a short
that your dog is leading you! If the dog is leadingwalk a couple times a week. This is a common
the humans there will be problems guaranteed.scenario of the general dogs life I come across as
You are the human so you need to be leader.a trainer. And, although you may think that you
You can become pack leader today, right now. Itgive them a great life with treats and a beautiful
doesn't matter if you were not pack leaderbed, this isn't a dog's idea of a fantastic life. We
yesterday. Don't worry; it can be turned aroundmust begin this whole process by understanding
rather easily if you follow my guidelines. You canthe way dogs and humans think differently. Once
become the leader today! But, you must startwe understand the differences we can begin to
from this moment on and continue to be leader,communicate with our dogs more successfully
consistently from today on. I will show you howand train our dog's better! A dog's fantastic life
to do it.would be to explore the world with you. But,
You might also be surprised to know that whenbeing able to do that in our civilized society would
the dog does not see you as the clear leader,mean they have to be well trained to go
they will not come to you when called, may pulleverywhere with you! So, that will be our goal.
on leash, not stay consistently, jump up on youIt can be a beautiful experience to have a
or others, or just generally not have desirable,well-trained dog. You can have a dog that is
"obedient" behavior. In order to successfully havehappy, listens to you and that you can take out
a well-trained dog you must first understand thatwherever you go and they will be controlled and
you must be pack leader in their lives and theywalking next to you. You can be one of those
must be the follower. Without this understandingpeople that others envy because your dog listens
between you and your dog, you will not achieveto you and doesn't pull you down the street and
the results you want.comes to you when called. There is so much
Dogs actually WANT a clear leader and arepotential in each and every dog. You just need to
HAPPIER with a clear leader. It is a lot of stressopen the lines of communication in the way the
and a lot of work for the dog to be leader. Yourdog can understand. It isn't all that hard. Just
dog will NOT love you more if you only give themfollow my steps and you'll get there!
affection and no rules. I can honestly tell you thatYou can still love and hug and kiss your dog. But
your dog will love you more when there are setunderstand there is a time to do that and a time
rules for them to follow. You are not being kindnot to. If the dog is behaving in a way you like
to your dog if you are too lenient and let themthen by all means reward them with your love!
"get away" with bad behavior. It does not work inBut if they are jumping all over a guest and you
the long run. What happens is you have a dogare not happy with that behavior do not reward
that doesn't see anyone in its life as being packthat behavior by petting them. I go into greater
leader and one of two things will happen; eitherdetail about this in my website. I just wanted to
they will become leader and lots of problembe clear that this isn't a militant form of training. It
behavior will develop, or they will breakdown andis just a way that dogs actually prefer. You make
be fearful because they have no clear leader. Asthe rules, they follow them; a dog will prefer to
we know a dog that is fearful is not happy. So,have these rules. After you get used to the rules
trust me when I say, if you establish yourself asit will become second nature to you. Say for
clear pack leader, it is the best gift you can giveexample it is time to eat and you've already
you dog. They will love you more and be happier.established where your dog lays for that time;
you can eventually just point to the area and say
What do I do to become my dog's leader?go to your bed (or whatever name you have
There are many ways to become pack leader.given the area) and they'll go, if that is what you
One of the first ways is for you to establish ruleslike. The dog will love to understand what you
in your home for your dog. There must be a setwant of them. They really do want to please us
way the dog is allowed to behave and it must beand it is just a matter of us making it clear to
very clear to the dog.them on how to please us.
Obedience training is the next step in helping you
1. Basically you control the house. If they are onto become the leader. What is obedience training
the couch or bed and you want them off then itexactly? It is a training tool used to teach dog's
should be easy for you to ask them to get off. Ifthings like sit, down, stay, come, etc. I think of it
it isn't, then we can see who is pack leader and ita bit like teaching a language where both you and
isn't you! Ha! Don't worry I'll show you how to dothe dog understand each other. It gives you the
this as well.very valuable tool of teaching your dog
2. If someone comes to the door and they barkacceptable behavior in your world together. When
then you should be able to stop the barking.a dog is taught these things correctly, and yes
3. If a guest enters the house they should notthere is a right way and awrong way, your dog
jump on the guest.will understand what you want and obey you
4. They are not allowed to nip or bite or growl athappily. If you learn the proper techniques, you will
you. The dog's teeth should never be allowed onhave a dog that responds to what you ask
you at any time even during play.consistently, and feels happier in general, whether
5. If you have food on the counter the dogoff leash or on. If done improperly, or
should not take it.inconsistently, you may confuse your dog and not
6. The dog should understand which toys arehave good results. That is where it can be very
theirs and which ones are the kid's toys.helpful to follow my website closely to perfect
7. In the pack, the pack leader eats first and thethese techniques and have fast, reliable results.
follower's wait at a designated spot. You shouldEveryone who has used my training techniques
not allow your dog to beg for your food. Youhas been impressed with fast results.
should establish a clear area where your dog isEXERCISE, EXERCISE, EXERCISE your dog! You
allowed to be during the time you eat and stickwill not have success in any area of your training
with that spot every time. Everyone in theexperience if your dog is not exercised properly
household, including the kids, need to follow allwhere they are allowed to drain all of their
these rules as well.energy. This is the number one rule of good dog
8. When it is the dogs turn to eat there are alsobehavior. "A good dog is a tired dog". Daily,
very clear rules you need to follow. The dogcontrolled (no-pulling), walks establish your
should not be allowed to bark, and jump all overleadership as well as draining the wound up energy
you while they wait for you to prepare and giveof a dog. I can show you how to have a
their food. They should be waiting, preferablycontrolled walk with your dog and what type of
sitting quietly and only then would you put theirexercise is right (and enough) for your dog
food bowl down. If you put their food bowl downthrough my website:
while they are barking at you then you have justGood house rules for the dog to follow:
rewarded them for that behavior. You should also* You own the house and what is in it. You have
be allowed as pack leader to take the food awaythe right to take away whatever you want
or reach into their food bowl whenever you want.without a problem including food, toys and treats.
9. The dog that snaps at you, growls or bites* You choose where the dog is allowed to sleep
during feeding time is a clear indication they doand where he/she is allowed to be. Make these
not see you as pack leader. A pack leader ownsrules clear.
that food bowl at all times and can do whatever* When you are eating the dog is not allowed to
they want with it. If you feed the dog expectingbeg and should stay a distance of several feet
calmness from them EVERY feeding, you will beaway at a designated area.
establishing your role as pack leader.* The dog must be calm before getting it's own
10. This holds true for treats and toys as well.food.
You as pack leader own everything and can take* No paws on you or guests when the dog is
it away and give it back without any problem.jumping in excitement.
You need to set very clear rules. It is possible for* The dog's teeth are not allowed on anyone at
the dog to easily follow all these rules and manyany time even if you think it is a playful nip. Playful
more. Remember, they will be happy to knownips turn into dog bites very easily.
what is expected of them!* All household members must follow the same
Consistency is very important. I can tell you rightrules.
now that if you are clear only 90% of the time,In summary, you begin training by becoming pack
that extra 10% will be just enough to confuse theleader in your home with set rules, along with an
dog and not understand what is truly expected.obedience program, and make sure you are
So, for example, if you occasionally allow yourdraining your dog's energy with lots of exercise.
dog to jump on certain houseguests as a greetingThese are the three most important things for
but other times you expect them not to jump onyou to learn to begin your successful path to a
another guest then that would be unfair andwell-trained dog!