Letting Go Of Mr. J.

Meet Mr. J., a grade school librarian. Over thethem! When the assembly began soon after
years, many students came through the halls ofschool started it was time to pass on the Student
this particular school and they all adored Mr. J. HeCouncil torch. As the Council students filed in with
had a way with children by knowing each studenttheir red eyes and sat down, word spread like
by his/her name and making all of them feelwildfire, "Mr. J. was LEAVING?!?!" More tears were
special. It was not unusual to walk past the librarynow added to the mix. On one hand Mr. J. was
and see a group of students huddled around hishappy that he was following his dreams. However
desk sharing their day with him. Mr. J. was notto the students, needless to say, they were
only the school Librarian, but also the leader of ancrushed. After that short day of school many
esteemed organization called the "6th Gradestudents stayed behind to say their last
Student Council." In order to belong to this group,good-byes to Mr. J. It appears that Mr. J. went far
the then 5th grade students had to be on thebeyond the call of duty in teaching the students
honor roll, be recommended by a past or currentabout the real world. From a logical and
teacher, and write an essay on why they wantedmetaphysical standpoint, when people are in an
to be on the Student Council. Only after they hademotional whirlwind they cannot see the lesson
satisfied these requirements, they needed to passbeing taught. When I first heard this story,
somewhat of an adult-like interview. All of thethrough the teary eyes of a 5th grader I started
students took this entire process very seriously.to think of this as a lesson in Letting Go. I see
Unfortunately through this process some werethat this small group of kids is being taught a life
eliminated, but the ones chosen had mustered uplesson about Letting Go and allowing someone to
to the challenge. The decision was tough this yearfollow their path. The close-knit group of students,
because these 5th graders were an exceptionalso looking forward to the following year, will
group and have been ever since startinghopefully someday look back at this experience
Kindergarten. Mr. J. actually added 6 moreand add it to their bag of lessons to help them
students to the Council because of thealong as adults. Letting Go comes in all sizes and
extraordinary group that wanted to join. Whenshapes and colors. And sometimes it may appear
the final 18 students were chosen they were sothat we are not aware of what we are Letting
excited, not only to be on Student Council, butGo of until we have actually done it. When we let
also to be working so closely with Mr. J. The lastgo of people, situations, and the arrogance of
day of school has its own special feelings but thismaterial then we allow ourselves to grow, logically
was also the day that the current Council wouldand spiritually. Some of you may have guessed it
be introducing the next years Council. Beforeby now, but I am the observer and it was my
school, Mr. J. had a special meeting with the updaughter who was one in the small group of
and coming group. Of course they did not knowstudents. I hope that some day she can get past
that he had always had a yearning to work in aher tears and see this adventure for what it
high-school library. Well, that time had come, hiswas--a lesson in Letting Go. © Tony Masiello
dream was coming true. He had applied for and2006
been offered the job at a local high school. He hadTony Masiello is an author and intuitive consultant.
just found out himself and now had to tell hisHe is the author of the e-book, Whispers from
group of Council members the news. Immediatelythe Universe, which is a collection of writings that
tears started flowing; tears of sadness andwill help you, motivate you, inspire you and guide
disbelief. They had waited all these years to beyou along the inner path of your life.
able to work with him and now he was leaving