"Ordinary Mary's Extraordinary Deed" Stops Bullying At School

For many children going to school can be amuffins and gives them to her paperboy and four
challenging experience. Fear and insecurity canothers - one of whom is Mr. Stevens, who then
often cause great kids to act in less than positivehelps five different people with their luggage - one
and constructive ways. It has been estimatedof whom is Maria, who then helps five people -
that 160,000 children miss school every day outincluding a man named Joseph who didn't have
of fear of being harassed or attacked by anotherenough money for his groceries - and so on, until
student. Bullying, targeted viciousness, and violencethe deed touches every single person on the
in our schools have become a national concern.planet and finally comes back to Mary.
In 2004, Orchard Elementary School in Orem,After reading and discussing this book, the entire
Utah found itself with an especially difficult 6th6th grade decided to set a goal of leaving their
grade class. Many of these students, both maleschool with 15,000 good deeds by the time they
and female, were forming predatory cliques thatgraduated. The results were astounding. Not only
seemed devoted to teasing, belittling and bullyingdid they reach their goal, but the entire tone and
other students before, during, and after school.climate of the school changed as a result.
"There was little empathy or respect for one"All the kids really became one cohesive group,"
another," said Principal Brent Palmer, "A lot of thesaid Hill, "Popular kids started reaching out to less
kids were wonderful, but those that were causingpopular kids and several kids left cliques they
problems were pretty aggressive."were in and forged new friendships. It was really
Deciding to take matters into her own hands, ahard for some of them emotionally but it turned
mother of one of the "problem" boys asked hisout to be a really great thing. This program pulled
teacher, Lisha Hill, to allow her to try ankids out of the shadows, included them in social
experiment. She gathered all the 6th gradeinteractions and made them more aware of the
classes together and read them the book,ratio of positive to negative things they do."
"Ordinary Mary's Extraordinary Deed" by EmilyIn 2006, other Utah schools also began
Pearson, in which Mary, an ordinary girl from ansuccessfully implementing this program. By taking
ordinary school on her way to her ordinary house,the focus off of negative behaviors and getting
stumbles upon ordinary blueberries. When shechildren, teens, and even adults united in a positive
decides to pick them for her neighbor, Mrs.goal, a difference can be made -- and that
Bishop, she starts a chain reaction that multipliesdifference can be huge.
around the world. Mrs. Bishop makes blueberry