Activity Preschool Education - But Why Can't I Say That? And More Parenting Advice

I often wonder if little kids are so fascinated with"I thought it was time to introduce him to the
the discovery of themselves that they have toworld of tools, like big kids. Together, we picked
share all their incredible information with the world.out a new hammer and screwdriver, and some
Perhaps because subjects are so openly discussedbrackets I needed to hang our new drapes. At
at home, children feel that it's alright to discussthe counter, the elderly owner of the store rang
private affairs in public. Whatever the reason, kidsup my purchases. About this time, my son
often say the funniest things, and what they sayannounces at the top of his lungs, 'Daddy's tool is
usually involves body functions.a lot bigger than mine, but he says mine's gonna
Because they're darling innocents, that's why. Thegrow a lot.' The old gentleman never batted an
world hasn't taught them yet that sucheye. He just said 'I sure hope so, sonny.'
conversation with total strangers isn't socially"It was Christmas," said the mother of an
appropriate. If Mommy is concerned about a rashadorable three-year-old daughter. "Of course all
on a toddler's pee-pee, why can't that concern bewe were hearing were Christmas carols. My
related to the postman, the grocery store clerk,daughter was just learning about God and Jesus
or the neighbors? Little kids just don'tand what Christmas is really all about. When "Silent
comprehend the censorship that our society willNight" came on the radio, my daughter turned to
eventually inflict upon them. If it can be said atme and asked 'Mommy, what's a virgin?' I thought
home, why can't it be said in public? Again,about it for a moment - how to explain virginity
toddlers have no concept of personal privacy;to a little girl? Finally, I said 'A virgin is a young
just ask any frazzled mother whose child just hasunmarried woman.' 'Oh,' said my daughter with
to go "number two" right this minute! Or so thewisdom beyond her years, 'then my cousin CeCe
child agonizingly informs everyone in the checkoutis a virgin cause she's only sixteen.' From behind
lane at Wal-Mart.the newspaper, my husband snickered and said, 'I
If you have ever been in one of these situations,wouldn't count on it.' From then on, every time I
then you will be able to sympathize with thesaw CeCe I couldn't help laughing."
following real life stories. And if you are a parent"Out of the mouth of babes…" Nothing
with children too young to speak yet, just youcould be truer. Children will speak their minds,
wait, your time will come!regardless of the social circumstances around
"I was breast feeding my little girl when thethem. You spend several months coaxing those
doorbell rang. I covered up quickly and answeredfirst words from your baby and then spend the
the door with my child still in my arms. To mynext couple of years telling them to be quiet or
dismay, there were two young, very polite youngnot to say that. You can't win, so the next best
men; Mormon missionaries they were! Mything you can do is laugh and enjoy your children's'
daughter, who's a very friendly child, pulled asidefaux pas. Don't try to tell your toddler to hush;
my shirt and gleefully announced 'See Mommy'sthat tactic won't work and may even make the
boobies!' I'll never forget the look on those nicesituation worse. You'll get a never-ending string of
young fellas' faces. I was so embarrassed; I"Why"? One day, when your toddler is grown and
excused myself and shut the door. Glaring at mybringing home that one true love to meet the
daughter, who looked at me with wide, innocentfamily, you can be sure that their significant other
eyes, I started to laugh. And every time I tell thiswill want to hear stories and anecdotes about the
story, I still laugh!"sparkle in their life. Then you can regale them and
"I took my four-year-old son to the hardwareentertain with tales of a certain chatty toddler in
store with me," one red-faced father recounted.the line at Wal-Mart.