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We had gotten into that cycle where I was continually punishing his behavior and drawing attention to it. I realized then how seldom, in fact, never had I actually drawn attention to what he was doing right. So I realized from then on I needed to focus my attention on all his strengths. Catch him doing something right, if you will. And give attention to that rather than always punishing the negative behavior and always giving attention to that. 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