| Are you having problems with your husband? | | | | him regarding them. You must be aware that |
| Then try to follow the tips below and | | | | some things are more important than others, |
| discover how to start fixing them! | | | | and that you must struggle for those that |
| | | | really make difference. And do not forget, |
| 1 º Say what you are feeling. | | | | have conviction in your decisions and |
| | | | intentions. |
| There are some frequent complaints that are | | | | |
| not constructive or pleasant for a couple. | | | | 4º Accept the conflict |
| For example: | | | | |
| | | | Don't hide when you are feeling sad, trying |
| "You are never at home, only think about your | | | | to show that's all right. Often by inability |
| work." | | | | to express what you are feeling, or being |
| | | | afraid of a conflict, you just store into |
| It's wrong because the partner is not acting | | | | yourself your anger, which sooner or later |
| in bad faith, perhaps a protest with words | | | | will hurt you and make you feel resentment. |
| more pleasant, or with a demonstration of | | | | |
| affection brings better results. You can say | | | | Lesson: face the conflict with interest and |
| that, sometimes, it's sad you don't have his | | | | curiosity instead of hide it. See it with |
| company, and that you are feeling alone, etc. | | | | opened mind, because from it can arise the |
| | | | harmony. |
| Lesson: The solution is to exchange words of | | | | |
| anger for words of love. If this attitude | | | | 5º Be happy with yourself |
| doesn't solve the problem, at least it will | | | | |
| not disturb. | | | | Unfortunately, many of us start a marriage |
| | | | thinking that will be saved from all the |
| 2 º Prioritize the couple | | | | frustrations, that our partner has the duty |
| | | | of making us happy. Indeed, we have to enjoy |
| It looks strange, but it's true. First you, | | | | the best of him, but the individual happiness |
| then the kids. Often a mother super | | | | depends exclusively of each one. Marriage is |
| protective and super present can let the | | | | not to depend, but to share. |
| father with little space to act. You will | | | | |
| feel less guilty when you start with this | | | | This mistake has been the reason for the |
| priority, because thinking about the welfare | | | | unhappiness of thousands of marriages. |
| of your husband you will be thinking about | | | | |
| the welfare of your marriage, what's good not | | | | Lesson: You will be as happy with your |
| only for the couple, but for the kids, too. | | | | partner as you are with yourself. It's a |
| | | | rule. |
| Lesson: pay attention to your marriage, think | | | | |
| about the other. These attitudes can improve | | | | 6 º Get your own life |
| the relationship and are the best thing the | | | | |
| couple can do for their kids grow up with the | | | | Be careful, don't "drown" the other. Many |
| example of a happy marriage. | | | | couples believe that the recipe for a perfect |
| | | | marriage is to do everything together. It's |
| 3º Set your limits | | | | not true, for a marriage gets success, each |
| | | | one needs to be well organized in his own |
| Forgetting important dates, being always | | | | life. |
| late... Be careful, for some occasions you | | | | |
| can close your eyes, but not for others. | | | | Lesson: See the couple as two distinct |
| Then, it's very important to have stability | | | | persons, with autonomy, who have chosen to |
| and transparency. Don't you get to remember | | | | live together. |
| dates? Then, talk to him about it and explain | | | | |
| your situation! When you know your | | | | Â |
| priorities, set your limits. | | | | |
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| Lesson: with a delicate dialogue without | | | | |
| aggression, expose your priorities, what you | | | | Did you like this article? |
| want with them and the respect you hope from | | | | |