5 Tips to Finding the Right School for Your Child

If you are like me you probably lost sleep overBefore deciding on a school you should do the
what school to enroll your child in. This is especiallyfollowing:
the case with people who move to new school- Call the school and ask for a brochure or packet
districts or moving people moving theiron the school
pre-schooler to kindergarten.- Tour the school(s) you are considering
Choosing the right school is one of the most- Meet the teacher(s) that will be teaching your
critical decisions in your child's development. Aschild
hard as it is to admit, your child will spend more- If possible, view a class while in session
time at school with teachers and classmates then- Ask questions, any and all questions you may
at home.have
After making my way through the school search- Find out about class size
I would like to share my hard-earned tips to- Know about the school schedule. Does it work
making your search easier.with your life schedule?
First you will need to decide Public or PrivateOnce you have narrowed the search down to
Schoolone or two schools have your spouse (if
Some districts have highly rated public schools andapplicable) and child tour the school(s). Often you
others do not. Private schooling does notcan schedule a tour with the school or attend an
necessarily mean religious based school. There areopen house or parent meeting night.
of course plenty of religious based schools butTalk to your child and spouse about the school:
there are also non-sequitarian private schools to1 - Do you like the school? Do you feel
choose from.comfortable there?
There are many things to consider when deciding2 - Does your child like the school and feel
"public or private":comfortable there?
1 - Consider both Public and Private School3 - Was the curriculum up to your standards?
Options4 - What was the education level of the students
Public School Optionin the class?
The state education system is always under fire.5 - Was it clean?
That doesn't mean all public schools are bad. Do3 - ENROLL
some simple research and see what you thinkOnce you have made your decision enroll your
about the school(s) in your area.child. This is particularly important with private
- What is the local public school like?school. Space is limited and will fill up. Kindergarten
Tour the public school during school hours. Thisclasses are notorious for this. You can enroll your
can be arranged with the admissions office. Lookchild as early as a year ahead of time to ensure
at the children who attend. Are these the friendsthey get in to the school of our choice.
you would like for your child? Peek in the class4 - Waiting Lists for Private Schools
room(s), if allowed. Does it seem organized? MeetWaiting lists exist at private schools that are full,
the teacher who would be teaching your child.meaning the class you are trying to enroll your
Ask about schedule for school and class roomchild in has reach maximum enrollment. You can
size.put your child's name on a waiting list. They will call
You can find out the statistics for your local publicyou if a space becomes available. Make sure to
school at This site will give you information on theask what number you are on the waiting list. You
school's performance for statewide testing,may have a chance is you are #1-5, but even
student to teacher ratio compared to statethen it is only a chance. Do not rely on this waiting
average, ethnicity of students attending, etc. It willlist. Find an alternative school and if they call in the
give you great information on the school.meantime, GREAT!
Private School Option5 - Talk with Your Child
Your can find out what private schools are inOnce school has started talk to your child. Ask
your area by visiting This site will give you detailedhim how school is going? Do you like the
information on number of students who attend,teachers? Have you made friends? Your child's
class size, student to teach ratio, etc.responses will give you an indication of how the
When choosing a private school a couple things toschool is working out. Also, watch your child's
consider are:behavior. Sometimes a child's behavior changes
- Does the schools religious or ethics and moralmildly after being introduced into a new group of
instruction fall in line with how you want your childchildren and environment. This is nothing that a
to be raised.good home life and parenting can't handle quickly
- Is it within reasonable commuting distance fromthough. The only cause for concern is drastic
your homenegative behavior changes. If this is the case you
- Can you afford it?may want to talk to your child more seriously
Although this is definitely not the most importantabout what has been going on at school and have
point, it must be evaluated. Private schooling is nota consultation with the teacher. Normally children
cheap. Prices normally range from $3500-$8000are good with change and adapt easily.
per child per year. Most schools offer paymentI am not a doctor, psychiatrist, or psychologist. I
options generally structured to include anam a child care giver, a child counselor, a mentor,
enrollment fee and then 6-12 month paymentchild advisor and an expert on my child, which is
plans. Some private schools offer scholarshipssimply means I am a MOM! I hope this information
based on the child's academic performance and/orwill help you find the right school for your child. I
the parent's income. If you decide to enroll yourdidn't know where to start and since I write
child in a private school long term affordability isarticles for work I thought it would be great to
important. You do not want to have your childshare what I have learned through this process in
transferred due to lack of tuition payment.the hopes of helping the fellow parents in their
2 - Do Your Homework on the School(s)quest for the right school for their child.